04 Sep 2026 | Uncategorised

Jacana the Band. A Proud Grandma Post

A proud grandma post! My lovely grandsons, Leo and Reuben, together with their dad, Joe, have formed a band: Jacana (the Band). They are mad birdies as well as guitarists, so they chose their name after the beautiful Jacana bird. At just 9 and 12, Leo and Reuben are enthusiastic…

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19 Nov 2025 | Ceremonies

Releasing Doves for Joyce Spillett

I met with Joyce’s family on a wild and stormy Sunday afternoon. Our original venue fell through at the last minute, there simply weren’t enough tables for everyone, so we shifted to the local tavern. By some small miracle, we managed to gather around two long tables tucked away in…

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01 May 2025 | Uncategorised

Love…destination full of hope

“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” Maya Angelou  

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Room at the Table for Everyone

09 Mar 2022 | Healing

Grandma, can you tell me what is going on?

There is Room at the Table for Everyone We all have something we can bring to the table whether it is joining the front lines of actions or keeping the home fires burning. We each have a unique way of showing up in the world and finding our way to…

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22 Jan 2022 | Uncategorised

Honouring Thich Nhat Hanh – An Inspiring Teacher

Thich Nhat Hanh, the renowned Vietnamese Buddhist monk died yesterday, aged 95. I smiled with gratitude and felt a warmth in my heart for this beloved teacher. I sat and watched my breath. I am aware that I am breathing in. I am aware that I am breathing out. Thay’s…

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16 Jan 2022 | Uncategorised

The Dark Night

The third day blues. Inevitable. A doctor friend called it the day of reckoning. A restless night with bad dreams, fear, pain, questioning with periods of drifting off to sleep and light dozing so as not to completely wake me up, rather keep me that ‘dark night’ space. I sit…

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13 Jan 2022 | Ceremonies

Palanca – A Form of Prayer, Encouragement and Support

Yesterday one of my colleagues who I got to meet in person very recently, sent me an email, ‘Good evening Wendy and my blessings for this New Year. With your upcoming surgery on 14 January I will Palanca for you all day.’ Marg is a woman of devotion  and this…

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20 Dec 2021 | Uncategorised

Online Memorial Ceremony for Paul

Family and friends gathered online with some nervousness wondering what would happen. It can be hard to show up to something you have no idea about. What will we do? How will we connect? Will it be safe? Paul’s partner had chosen a song to open the mourning and celebration…

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02 Dec 2021 | Uncategorised

Celebrating the Life of Brian Trethowan

A Service Of Celebration And Thanksgiving For The Life Of Brian Trethowan “Brian lived a life that was blessed with a loving family, hard work, opportunities to grow and learn and, as with every person here, he had his challenges. There are many different stories here today, each one of…

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01 Dec 2021 | Uncategorised

Pauline Lancaster – Mum, Nan, Nanny Paul, Pauline

Rani, Pauline’s granddaughter pre-recording this reading which was shared at the ceremony via the platform Zoom What is Dying?  by Bishop Charles Henry Brent I am standing on the seashore. A ship sails to the morning breeze and starts for the ocean. She is an object and I stand watching her…

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