Grief and Love are Intertwined
“Heath was cheeky, talented, and soulful. Heath’s deep love for his sons never faltered, and his pride in them was constant. Heath’s love endured, and he would want nothing more than their happiness and success.
However, with deep loss comes grief and, at times, anger—often arising from the love and frustration of witnessing someone’s struggle, knowing how much more life could have offered them and how much more they could have given. Acknowledging your grief respects the depth of your care and the hope you held for him. As the writer Francis Weller reminds us, “Grief and love are intertwined, woven together from the beginning.” Anger can act as a fierce protector of the vulnerability and tenderness that loss brings, while grief softens us into connection, honouring the love and significance of what Heath meant to you.
Heath’s legacy lives on in his sons—not just in their laughter or, at times, shared mannerisms but in the lesson’s he taught them, both in the joys of life and through the hardships. Some lessons were nurturing, others were harder. Heath’s battle was significant, and, as you remember Heath, may you hold onto the good memories—the laughter, the music, the moments of connection and find ways and support to release the memories that don’t serve you. Heath’s journey, though marked by challenges, was filled with love for his family.
Heath would want you to celebrate life, to cherish your loved ones, and to live fully.”
Closing Words
As we close, we’ll listen to a song Departures, the lyrics speaks into those we love who leave:
“You surround those of us you love
Let it ring let the bell ring out for you
May it sing of your beautiful truth
Take your leave on the rising tide
Travel slow enjoy the ride.”
Thank you for your kind presence and care, and for being here today.
May peace be with you.
Closing Song
Departures (Blue Toowong Skies)—Bernard Fanning
